Posts from — October 2010
Inspired by my girlfriends, I’m doing a series on fashion faux pas. Some are obvious; others not so much. But the No. 1 is:
I’m not shopping until I lose [insert number here] pounds.
Seriously? So, you hate your wardrobe, but you’re going to feel frumpy until sometime next year when you lose weight? [Disclaimer: Adrea you do not look frumpy!] I hear it all the time. In fact, I used to live it. Then, I figured why not buy for the body I have and feel confident about how I look? Here are my top reasons why you should NEVER wait to dress well.
1. It may never happen OR it may not NEED to happen. I went for years saying I was going to lose 10 pounds, but guess what? I never did. I exercise, I eat right, and I’ve decided I’m at my happy weight right now. Even if you’re not at your happy weight, until you decide to fully commit to eating healthfully and exercising faithfully, the weight will not magically disappear. So, at least you can look good while trying. [Disclaimer: To my friends, this does not mean I don’t think you look good, it just means if you’re unhappy with your wardrobe, why stay unhappy?]
2. Hello, alterations anyone? I am really shocked when people say they didn’t think of having something altered. If you do lose the weight, take your favorite items to a tailor and have them smallered–which isn’t a word but it should be ;).
When I started running, I lost 30 lbs (and have since gained back 15 of it!) I took every classic item of clothing in my closet a few pieces at a time and had them altered to fit. At the time, I couldn’t afford a new wardrobe.
Regardless, how much are you really going to buy in that transition period anyway? Jackets, slouchy/loose tops and other items may not even need alterations if you’re only losing 5 lbs.
3. Accessorize, girl! If you’re stubborn and still not convinced, then at least invest in some Super Wow accessories. Throw on a necklace with a tee shirt, a cool belt and rock some shoes that make you feel fab. Or, consider stepping out of your box and wearing a hat (Target has some AWESOME ones right now). I love the Mossimo Cloche with Feathers. Even a sequined headband would add some panache to your look. Wear some colorful shoes and chunky bracelets.
Designer Paris Gordon (who will be featured on this blog in the coming months) says this, “Style is timeless; fashion is fleeting.” So, rather than plan for the life you want to have (like when you’re 5, 10, 20 pounds smaller) live in the moment, look fabulous and take this time to find your personal style.
October 30, 2010 2 Comments
Scarves–They bring me back to my childhood when I would visit my grandmother and play dress up with her extensive scarf and bead selection! This outfit is super simple. How much easier can it be? You throw on a white tank, some skinny jeans and flats. But, the outfit really comes together when you add the scarf.
October 27, 2010 3 Comments
October 26, 2010 5 Comments
Love these! Tory Burch Corbet Glitter Ankle Boots
What would you wear them with? Ideas, anyone? I can picture them with a fun silver swing skirt, like this, and tights.
October 24, 2010 1 Comment
Our style spy spotted two particularly chic moms at a recent field trip to a local farm.
October 24, 2010 Comments Off on Style Spy: On the Farm
Ahhh…leopard. While this cape/dress, whatever it is, is totally impractical, I LOVE it! So, if I show up at a girls night out with this funky contraption, don’t be surprised! Then, again, I’m not sure I have the chutzpah to wear it.
In addition to leopard, I also am obsessed with owls. Bet you didn’t know that about me, did you? My grandmother left me this awesome vintage 70s owl necklace and I’ve been looking for a companion to it. This one is cute!
October 22, 2010 Comments Off on eBay: Little of This; Little of That
Because building your wardrobe requires some thought, I’m going to write this in four parts–bottoms, tops, shoes and accessories. And, this is for everyday wear, when you want to looked pulled together to run to the grocery store or have lunch with friends.
Here are the basics you need:
1. Black pants. In my earlier post, I talked about my crush on the Gap series of black pants. Many of the styles are casual enough to throw on with flats but look super polished. I love the Slim Crop and the True Straight. They are both slim enough to tuck into tall boots but easy to wear with flats.
2. Jeans. Honestly, one pair of jeans is never enough! Right now, I love the look of the straight/skinny jeans with flats or tucked into boots. Some to try: AG Jeans (Adriano Goldschmied click here for eBay search) Angel fit. They run a little looser in the thigh. I also love the Tory Burch Metallic Brush Legging (although they don’t fit like leggings.) Citizens of Humanity also runs a little looser in the thigh. Make sure they are hemmed to work with flats, you don’t want them pooling at your ankle, nor do you want to have to roll them up all the time, although that look can be cute!
3. Skirts. Full disclaimer: I don’t wear a lot of casual skirts. I mostly have pencil skirts or fancy lace, sequins or silk skirts to wear for business, church or evenings out. But, on a warm summer day, or with tights in cooler weather, a skirt can’t be beat. A casual A-line or pencil denim skirt can take you from breakfast to dinner with ease. Wear it with a tank top, a slouchy tee shirt or an embellished tee and cardigan. For fall, I love the corduroy skirts with tights and chunky booties. This one from Ann Taylor Loft is cute. Pair it with a turtleneck or crew neck sweater for a 70s/prep look.
October 21, 2010 Comments Off on Part 1: Build Your Wardrobe
Of course, no wedding would be complete without a beautiful bride! Here is my cousin Tiffany and her HUSBAND Steve! Congrats!
October 18, 2010 Comments Off on The Bride!
She is wearing:
Dress: Banana Republic layered ruffle silk dress in black and brown. Bought on eBay
Shoes: Banana Republic sling back peep toes, bought a few seasons ago
Necklaces: short one: Ann Taylor; long one Banana Republic Garland, both bought last year
Earrings: Ann Taylor studs
October 18, 2010 1 Comment
October 18, 2010 2 Comments